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Victoria DeTampax

About Victoria DeTampax

Drag Diva Miss Victoria De Tampax, originally from Wexford currently based in Waterford. You may book her for that big event @

Victoria de Tampax & Charmin Eletrik @ Dignity Bar Waterford • 31st March 2012
Victoria DeTampax

Join the Vivacious Victoria de Tampax and the wonderful miss Charmin Eletrik tonight at Dignity Bar Waterford for a night not to be missed. xxx From 10pm 31st March 2012 Dignity Bar, john Street, Waterford, Ireland    

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The Bushwhackers guide to Gay Dating
Victoria DeTampax

Single and looking to date online?

There are many options out there and potentially complications if you don’t think about safety before meeting someone in person for the first time.

  • Get To Know Him First

Ask as many detailed questions as possible before committing to meet. Sometimes the person on the other end of the computer may not be who they say they are. Watch for inconsistencies or strange behaviors. If you see any warning signs or just have a bad feeling about the situation, trust your instincts and stop chatting.

  • Protect Your Identity and Personal Information

Never disclose personal information with a stranger online. It’s not necessary to use a fake name, but be weary of giving out your address, place of work, or any other sensitive information.

  • Leave a Trail

Stay on the side of caution by leaving a note at home detailing where you’re traveling or text a good friend and let them know your exact location and how the date is going. This may seem like overkill, but your safety is well worth a few seconds of time and effort.

  • Get A Photo

No photo, no date. That’s a good rule to live by in online dating. Ask him to email pictures other than the ones in his profile. Get as many details about the picture as possible, including the dates they was taken. Save the picture in an accessible folder on your computer.

  • Listen For Details

You can tell a lot about a person by the way they communicate. Does something about the conversation make you uncomfortable? Do you have a bad feeling? Before meeting in person, listen carefully during video chat sessions and phone conversation.

  • Meet In A Public Place

Meet in a relaxed, but public place with as many people around as possible. Try a busy restaurant or cafe. Avoid meeting at his home or in dark, hidden places.

  • Map An Exit

Know where your exits are and the most effective way to use them should you feel uncomfortable. As an extra precaution, visit the place you’re supposed to meet before the date. After the date, take a route other than your normal path home just in case he follows you without your consent.

  • Know His Sexual History

The best way to protect your body (remember HIV and Syphilis are still alive and well) is to know the status of your sexual partner. Not everyone tells the truth about their HIV status. Warning signs are refusal to answer questions about their status, ambiguity about the date of their last STD tests, ambiguity about the number of partners they’ve been with, and willingness to have sex without a condom among others. Asking if he’s “clean” is not enough. Protect yourself by assuming your partner is positive until proven otherwise.

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Eamonn Byrne
Victoria DeTampax

A Wexford man who now lives in Waterford at 33 years old Eamonn has had a rich and varied life working within the lgbt community from the decrimanilization of gay men to civil partnership Eamonn has been there in one … Continue reading

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Ms/ Mr Gay Wexford 2011 message from your Hostess Victoria De Tampax
Victoria DeTampax

Last year in association with Gay Wexford, I hosted Ms and Mr Gay Wexford on two separate nights. Fair play to everyone who entered and took part in both shows. Our winners in both comps ‘done us proud’ in the ‘all Ireland’ finals. Two great nights were had by all, although sound was a problem .

Craig O'Toole takes the Mr Gay Wexford title

This year, I’m back and this year will be bigger. brighter and better than last year. Ms/ Mr Gay Wexford is not affiliated with a group but in association with

To enter is easy. All you need to be is lgb or t and up for a bit of  fun & not take yourself too seriously. This is a night to celebrate all things gay in Wexford the good, the bad and the highly strange. Boy! have I some great surprises in store for you all but I will keep them under my wig for now.

Rounds will be as follows in male and female comps.

Round 1-being you

Here we meet our contestants for the first time and talk about what it’s like to be them living in Wexford and growing up gay. Dress in what you feel is your normal day clothes. At this point you can do your talent if you wish .

Round 2- Swim ware

In this round contestants are asked to come up with a swimming outfit that they feel they would go to the beach in this can be anything from your normal swimsuit to something off the wall. You come and swim in what you like, be original is my advice.

Round 3-all glamed up

Here the contestants are asked to wear formal so dress in your best for this round. At this point you’ll are asked questions about what you think about LGBT issues .

Then it’s up to the gods for both our potential winners. It could be you!

Sorcha takes over the show

To enter go to do it now or you will kick yourself


See you all there

Victoria xxx are holding this years, County Wexford heat of Ms Gay Ireland and Mr Gay Ireland: Ms/ Mr Gay Wexford on the 19th of August at the Wexford Arts Centre, Cornmarket, Wexford. Entries via the form or email by the 12th of August (submissions after this date may be at a disadvantage.) Details here

Book your tickets here or get them on the night.

This event is inclusive of everyone of the LGBT community, friends & family of.

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